“It’s all going to be okay.” — Rick Webb
There is a certain point in your life when you realize that you don’t know anything.
Up until that point, you thought you knew what was up. You thought you’d experienced heartbreak. You thought you’d experienced pain.
And then comes this big breakthrough, and you realize, you don’t know jack. You’re just starting your life, and you’re starting from zero, and everyone else seems to know more than you do.
You feel like a fraud, and a phony. You feel like you don’t have anything to offer this world.
And there’s that expression you’ve heard: Fake it ’til you make it. That’s almost true.
Because there’s a second realization that comes a little later: Nobody else knows anything, either.
Everyone, turns out, is kinda faking it. Nobody is just born an astrophysicist or a banker. (And nobody is born or a social media expert.) We mold ourselves into these people. We see what others are doing, we think about what we like to do, and we make ourselves into the people we want to be.
And once you realize that, you don’t feel like a phony. You don’t know anything, but hell, neither does anybody else. We’re all just trying to make it work in this world.
So just do good work and surround yourself with good people, and you’ll be okay. It’s normal to feel like you don’t know anything.
We all feel that way, and we’re all in this thing together.